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  • Writer's pictureMs. Cynthia

Are We In The Friend Zone?

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Dear Ms. Cynthia, There's this woman I really like, we didn't start talking until a few months ago and we started talking because I heard some things people said about her every day and she wanted to know. So I started thinking it was nothing special sort of like she was using me. But then we just started to regularly talk and I eventually started to like her more and more. She’s mentioned that she "loved me" but like playfully like all other women have said and I've heard before. But I'm not sure what she thinks of me, though she gives me frequent glances in class. It's been a few weeks and we haven't texted each other, which we usually would do daily so I'm starting to think about that it was nothing big, so I'm trying to stop liking her. So what do you think? Was she using me? Are we in the friend zone? How do I stop liking her? Please give me your ideas. -Need to Know (PA) Dear Need to Know (PA), "He said, She said": It's not always a good way to start a relationship, but it is not the worst. What were people saying about her and why, when you did not even know her? Well, let's move on. She does like you, to what degree I don't know, but the best way to find out is to start a real relationship, beyond talking and texting and ask her out on a date. The way she frequently glances at you across the room is a good indication that she will say yes. Good luck and keep me posted!

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