My Boyfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married & Is Against Pre-Martial Sex. What Should I Do?

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Dear Miss Cynthia, My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and he has made it clear that he doesn't want to get married. I don't have a problem with that because I've been married before and don't want to go down that road again. He is against pre-marital sex... What should I do? -Confused in Boston

Dear Confused in Boston, If you have a good relationship with each other, (which I feel that you have since you have been together for a year); there is a possibility that he has a problem with the male part of his body! The problem may be physical or emotional past traumatic experience(s). There is a possibility he has no desire for sex at all (no sex drive)! I personally know one adult male that had sexual issues all his adult life because his mother, during his entire childhood, told him how small his private area was! This is something you must get to the bottom of! Talk to him about it. He has to come clean and tell you the truth! If it is not a physical or emotional problem he has, then it is time you move on, because the only other rational explanation is that he is stringing you along!