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My Ex-Boyfriend Threatened to Kill My New Man

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Dear Miss Cynthia,

I have an ex-boyfriend who I dated for 3 years. We fell in love but he treats me badly and unfairly. He says everything's my fault when he's the one who stalks me and drives me crazy. Every time I tell him I don't want to see him anymore he threatens to kill himself and I don't want him to do that because I just lost a close friend to suicide. I found this new man who treats me like I want to be treated but my ex says he is going to kill him and I don't want to put this new man in a bad situation. He wants to be with me no matter what my ex says because he doesn't believe he will do anything, but my ex has a bad anger problem and he is a psycho. I don't know how to tell him I don't want to talk to him anymore. I don't want to get the cops involved because I don't want to see anything bad happen to my ex, I mean I still love him, but I don't want to be with him. He comes up to my work and waits for me outside. I usually have my new man pick me up but I'm scared they will fight. What should I do?


Dear Ex-factor,

Your ex is a master-manipulating control freak! This is a code red situation. He has threatened to kill himself and murder your new boyfriend. Murder/Suicide is the new trend. I cannot stress it enough: This man is DANGEROUS! You must contact the police; get a restraining order on him for both you and your new boyfriend immediately! You do not love him; it is a Fatal Attraction that may become drastically fatal sooner than you think! You have been in a long term abusive relationship for 3 years; this is often confused for love. Act now while you still can!

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